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Randy, I cannot thank you enough for sharing your wisdom and scholarship so clearly and precisely. I thought I knew a lot about our history and I have disowned American exceptionalism for a long time, but I am learning history I never knew with each writing. And I was elated to read that Eloheh can be what you and Edith want it to be! Keep on keeping on!

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On the 4th my 8 year old asked why we don't own or hang a flag, and I explained best I could my complicated feelings about the 4th. We've talked about things like this before, but your articles helped me simplify a few key points, starting with our origins of taking from native peoples and building up by enslaving people from African countries. Briefly tracing how that isn't over, but there are still challenges today, still people who think people with light skin, like us, are better than those with dark skin ("that doesn't even make sense!" he protests). Lamenting that we as the U.S. aren't good at owning and recognizing our many wrongs, which I think would help us move forward in a better way if we did. But your articles also helped me not just stay in all that's wrong, and the reminder that I still believe in the ideals. Explaining this is why when I see things that are wrong or I disagree with, I do what I can to make things right, to be the country we say we are, one that is a place of freedom, opportunity, and safety for ALL people. You said it again here succinctly: "Not the self-congratulation — the hard, ongoing, unfinished work of becoming what the founding documents claimed this nation already was."

I've been following and learning from your writing for a long time, but the particular way you name these hard truths helps me reckon, yet not get stuck in despair. And specifically this weekend, your clear articulation helped me distill some things down for my young kids, so thank you.

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